REGRETS ...
I will soon complete my 66th orbit around the sun as a self-aware sentient being on this fragile planet of ours, so in technical terms, I have been an old geezer for a few years. And my ancestors, if they could, and all those older than I who are still alive, would shake their heads with a knowing chuckle if they could hear me say the vivid memories of my boyhood companion, Kim the Collie, even how he smelled wet with rain, seem like they occurred only yesterday .... yes, it all does really seem like yesterday, but most of my yesterdays are now decades in the past. I have accumulated sixty plus years of experiences and experience. There is a vast difference beyond the letter “s” in those two words, and those of you who are old enough with experience understand it.
Like all those who have gone before me, I do have more than a few regrets. The one which has come most often to mind lately is that I wish I had paid more attention to the things my Daddy and all my elders tried to tell me, too much of which I ignored with the willful blindness of arrogant self-centered youth. By the way, your "youth" lasts into your forties, so do not make the error of thinking the first gray hair means you have enough experience to be truly wise. There is a great difference between knowledge and wisdom .... wisdom is the application of knowledge acquired with a life-overview, and is unlikely to be attained until the decades remaining in your life are far fewer than those decades already lived. This is why it is a great compliment to be told one is "truly wise beyond your years."
I regret not fully taking advantage of the greatest treasure trove of wisdom available to me, all of us, and that is the wisdom of those with many years of life lived. In our youth we crave experiences, doing things, seeing things, and are infatuated with the new and modern, whether it is cars, clothes, a love interest, music, or the latest technology. And all too often we do not pay attention to the advice of our elders for no other reason than they do not like the latest fashions or appreciate the same music, and are therefore old-fashioned and do not understand the "real" world. But in our youthful ignorance we are totally unaware that the fashions and music of our parents and grandparents were just as different from their elders as ours was from theirs, and that they too regretted not paying attention to those who tried to advise them about the real issues of life which are common to us all despite differences in politics, religion, or ethnicity. Sadly, "Common Sense" is indeed uncommon, a rare gem seldom seen, that is why its value is beyond measure. And when we ignore it, we impoverish ourselves and those we love.
The best advice we receive in life is often that which we do not want to hear because it goes against our craving for certain experiences at that moment. But when we do pay attention, incorporate it into the way we relate to our world, even trivial experiences can be transmuted into valuable experience about real life, and realizing the difference between the trivial and truly important is the foundation of wisdom. I miss my Daddy, and I wish I had just one more opportunity to thank him for all he tried to teach me. Had I listened, really listened, if only for a small part of the time, I would now be much the wiser for it.
So ...Listen up ..... here comes some of the best advice from an old geezer you will ever get:
........ PAY ATTENTION ... pay attention when someone older than you, especially someone who has nothing to personally gain, cares enough about you to try to tell you something about Life, and pay especially close attention to that advice if your first reaction is to disregard it ............ PAY ATTENTION .... chew on that advice for a while .... and if you do ingest it into your world view, your essential being may be nourished more than your imagination could have predicted.
(more articles for your entertainment or irritation available in BLOG ARCHIVE near top right of this page.)
I will soon complete my 66th orbit around the sun as a self-aware sentient being on this fragile planet of ours, so in technical terms, I have been an old geezer for a few years. And my ancestors, if they could, and all those older than I who are still alive, would shake their heads with a knowing chuckle if they could hear me say the vivid memories of my boyhood companion, Kim the Collie, even how he smelled wet with rain, seem like they occurred only yesterday .... yes, it all does really seem like yesterday, but most of my yesterdays are now decades in the past. I have accumulated sixty plus years of experiences and experience. There is a vast difference beyond the letter “s” in those two words, and those of you who are old enough with experience understand it.
Like all those who have gone before me, I do have more than a few regrets. The one which has come most often to mind lately is that I wish I had paid more attention to the things my Daddy and all my elders tried to tell me, too much of which I ignored with the willful blindness of arrogant self-centered youth. By the way, your "youth" lasts into your forties, so do not make the error of thinking the first gray hair means you have enough experience to be truly wise. There is a great difference between knowledge and wisdom .... wisdom is the application of knowledge acquired with a life-overview, and is unlikely to be attained until the decades remaining in your life are far fewer than those decades already lived. This is why it is a great compliment to be told one is "truly wise beyond your years."
I regret not fully taking advantage of the greatest treasure trove of wisdom available to me, all of us, and that is the wisdom of those with many years of life lived. In our youth we crave experiences, doing things, seeing things, and are infatuated with the new and modern, whether it is cars, clothes, a love interest, music, or the latest technology. And all too often we do not pay attention to the advice of our elders for no other reason than they do not like the latest fashions or appreciate the same music, and are therefore old-fashioned and do not understand the "real" world. But in our youthful ignorance we are totally unaware that the fashions and music of our parents and grandparents were just as different from their elders as ours was from theirs, and that they too regretted not paying attention to those who tried to advise them about the real issues of life which are common to us all despite differences in politics, religion, or ethnicity. Sadly, "Common Sense" is indeed uncommon, a rare gem seldom seen, that is why its value is beyond measure. And when we ignore it, we impoverish ourselves and those we love.
The best advice we receive in life is often that which we do not want to hear because it goes against our craving for certain experiences at that moment. But when we do pay attention, incorporate it into the way we relate to our world, even trivial experiences can be transmuted into valuable experience about real life, and realizing the difference between the trivial and truly important is the foundation of wisdom. I miss my Daddy, and I wish I had just one more opportunity to thank him for all he tried to teach me. Had I listened, really listened, if only for a small part of the time, I would now be much the wiser for it.
So ...Listen up ..... here comes some of the best advice from an old geezer you will ever get:
........ PAY ATTENTION ... pay attention when someone older than you, especially someone who has nothing to personally gain, cares enough about you to try to tell you something about Life, and pay especially close attention to that advice if your first reaction is to disregard it ............ PAY ATTENTION .... chew on that advice for a while .... and if you do ingest it into your world view, your essential being may be nourished more than your imagination could have predicted.
(more articles for your entertainment or irritation available in BLOG ARCHIVE near top right of this page.)